Gratitude and Intimacy
Gratitude and Intimacy With the holidays soon upon us, it’s that annual time we reflect on all the things we’re thankful for. Family,...
The Autonomously Driven Companionship
An Automatously Driven Companionship (Yes I am aware it's a mouth full!) It is not my traditional blog to go with out talking about the...
Weekend Sexperiment: Happy Fall Equinox Enjoying Symbiotic Love
Fall Equinox The daylight and evening is equal in time. Reflects a movement into the northern hemisphere transitioning to winter. (Great...
Seeking Safety: Creating An Emotional Safety Plan
Often my office is an opportunity for couples to engage in rekindling their trust with each other. In my professional opinion the best...
Healing Souls (Non) Sexperiment: Learning How To Say No To Sex Without rejection.
Recently a man asked me a question, "How do I ask for sex without sounding desperate?" The same day, I had a women ask me, "I don't...

Just When You Thought You Knew Them...
It's not just about sex and candy... The Continuum of Pride and Humility. I am a sex therapist. I specialize in people learning to live...
Weekend Sexperiment: Let the Fireworks Begin!
Creating the fireworks: Making Intimacy Sexy As a sex therapist that works with clients struggling with their relationships as well as...


5 tips to help you integrate
Much of my therapeutic practice has a great deal to do with how clients integrate their therapy session. In my mind it is more...
Is Your Partner Jealous?
As a marriage and family therapist that is a doctor of psychology my focus is on sexual trauma, sex addiction, porn addiction and most...