Riding the Craving Waves
Creating a Relapse Trigger Inventory Multiple situations can “trigger” a craving or urge to relapse into acting. This can be sexually...


Sexual Intimacy: Discovering Desire
Discovering Desire I am a solution focused sex and relationship expert, and often times I am simply someone that wants to help couples...
Proactive Honesty: Where Did The Time Go?
Being Proactive Honesty: Understanding the Value of 168! We all have been there… You just wanted to check your email, that’s it and 2...
Weekend Sexperiment: Happy Fall Equinox Enjoying Symbiotic Love
Fall Equinox The daylight and evening is equal in time. Reflects a movement into the northern hemisphere transitioning to winter. (Great...


Are You Bored? Using ESP In Your Sex!
Learn How to be A Mind Reader! The swear word in my office is “Boredom”! Last week I was sitting in front of an older couple and they...
Understanding Pornography and Infidelity
Pornography Infidelity Pornography: printed or visual material containing the explicit description or display of sexual organs or...
Seeking Safety: Creating An Emotional Safety Plan
Often my office is an opportunity for couples to engage in rekindling their trust with each other. In my professional opinion the best...
Healing Souls (Non) Sexperiment: Learning How To Say No To Sex Without rejection.
Recently a man asked me a question, "How do I ask for sex without sounding desperate?" The same day, I had a women ask me, "I don't...
Afflictions with Pornography Addiction
The Afflictions of Porn Addiction: The Pitfalls of Modern Intimacy. A couple recently came into my office and shared their perspective...
Healing Souls Sexperiment: Love is Active
Healing Souls Sexperiment: Love Is An Action. I recently spent time talking with a couple that was experiencing a lack of intimacy. ...